HI, I'M KAYLA

Certified Laura Doyle Relationship Coach Recovering Control Freak & Founder of Love Unlocked

I know what it’s like to

feel disconnected from your partner
feel guilty prioritising your own self-care
feel underappreciated and like the only adult
feel unattractive and invisible to him
feel like you’ve lost respect for him, even though you still love him
want to do something, but don’t want to drag him to counselling

After hitting a painful low point in my own relationship, I started to wonder what it would be like to leave and raise two boys on my own. None of my attempts to fix my partner, or fix the relationship, were getting me anywhere.

Then I discovered the 6 Intimacy Skills™ and it all started to turn around.

It wasn’t a linear journey. I’d start to see what was possible and feel so hopeful, only to struggle to live the skills consistently when I was hurt, angry, or exhausted.

So I went all in. I joined a community, worked one-on-one with a coach, and learned the essence of these skills during 12 months of training.

I learned how to stop outsourcing my happiness, let go of how I thought it all had to look, and reconnected with my own radiance.

Not only did I get my relationship back, I got to have two weddings and a third baby boy.

Now, I help women like you do the same.

Me as a coach.

As a Certified Laura Doyle Relationship Coach, I help women heal the disconnect and create vibrant, loving relationships using the 6 Intimacy Skills™.

Through intuitive, practical coaching and my grounded Kiwi nature, I offer real-life support — along with the odd signature metaphor that somehow makes everything click.

If you’re looking for a Laura Doyle coach who’s a little less orthodox — no scripts here — and will help you use the skills in a way that feels self-honouring, authentic, and actually usable in real life… you’re in the right place.

My approach is focused on helping you reconnect with the woman you want to be or maybe finding her again if she’s been buried under resentment, exhaustion, and doing it all.

Together, we uncover who she is: how she feels, what she wants, what she’s ready to clear out and most importantly what she's ready to call in.

Then we use the skills to navigate life as her.

Success isn’t measured by his mood, his actions, or the results you’re seeing that day. It’s measured by how consistently you can show up in alignment with the woman you’re choosing to become.

We don’t chase the vision.

We become the woman who can receive it.

"Coach Kayla, thank you for bringing such vibrant energy, wisdom, and nuance to the skills in a way that’s impossible to ignore and unforgettable to experience. Your analogies and storytelling have a magical way of shifting perspective and rewiring my thinking. You make growth feel expansive and exciting."

- Amanda

Want to hear more of my story?

If you’d love to hear more about my journey, I recently joined Laura Doyle on The Empowered Wife Podcast to share what happened behind the scenes: the painful low point, the changes I started making, and how the 6 Intimacy Skills™ helped me create a relationship I love with the man I chose.

You can watch the conversation below.

Beyond relationship coaching...

Farm girl at heart
I grew up on a farm in rural New Zealand and still love the simple things.

A few places called home
I’ve lived in Sydney, Dublin, Auckland, Whangamatā, Munich, and now Ireland.

Barefoot whenever possible
I’m down to earth, straight to the point, and I hate wearing shoes.

Mum of three boys
My boys are a HUGE part of why my relationship matters so much to me.

No regrets policy
I don’t believe in regrets, and I’ve removed that word from my personal vocabulary.

Feminine strength
I believe it takes more strength to be feminine than to be masculine. A woman in her feminine can change the world.

I'd love to hear your story.

I know how lonely it can feel when you love your partner but don't know what else to try.

When you've read the books, listened to the podcasts, and seen glimpses of what's possible—but can't seem to make the changes stick.

That's why I do this work. Not to give you more rules, but to help you embody the skills in a way that feels authentic, self-honouring, and true to you.

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